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It’seasiertoagreethandisagree.Thefollowingtipscanhelpkeepdisagreementsconstructive.

·Don’tmakeitpersonal.

Ifyougetupsetitcanhelptorememberthatyou’remadattheperson’sideanottheperson.

·Nevercriticizetheotherperson’sidea.

Insteadofsaying“That’sastupididea!”try:“Idon’tagreeandhere’swhy.”Nevershoutloudlyandyou’llhaveamuchbetterchanceofgettingyourideaacross.

·Use“I”statementstocommunicatehowyoufeelandwhatyouthink.

Using“you”statementscansoundargumentative（好争论的）.Forexampletellingyourmom“YoualwaysremindmeofmychoreswhenIhavealotofhomework”hasaverydifferenttone（语气）from“I’munderpressurebecauseIhavealotofhomeworktonight.CanIdothosechorestomorrow?”

·Listentotheotherpointofview.

Whentheotherpersonistalkingtrytostopthinkingaboutwhyyoudisagreeorwhatyou’llsaynext.Insteadfocusonwhat’sbeingsaid.Whenit’syourturntotalkrepeatsomekeypointstheotherpersonmadetoshowyouhavepaidattentiontowhatwassaid.Thencalmlyexpresswhyyoudisagree.

·Staycalm.

Thisisthemostimportantthingthatyoucandotokeepaconversationgoingonwell.

1题判断正误（“T”表示正确，“F”表示错误）；2题完成句子；3、4题简略回答问题；5题将文中画线句子译成汉语。

1.Thepassagemainlytalksabouttipstoshowdisagreements.

2. isthemostimportantthingthatyoucandotokeepaconversationgoingon well.

3.Whatshouldwedowhentheotherpersonistalking?

4.Whatshouldwesayifwedisagreewithsomeone?

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